Marriage Counselling, Couples Relationship Problems- Solutions!!!

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Marriage is one of the closest relationships, where the couple co-habits and a lot of it is based on trust and intimacy. When such an intimate relationship suffers, or stops working, the couple’s health and happiness is at stake. When the foundations of the relationship are questioned, despair strikes and the couple lose a sense of identity and self-worth.

Couples may need counseling when their relationship suffers due to the external factors like work, money, health, and family pressures. The relationship, which was so blissful, suddenly leaves the couple distressed, drained and disappointed. Suddenly, the couple starts blaming each other for small issues, and their love seems to be lost.

Almost every relationship will go through some stress, at some point of time, which may sometimes result in non-optimal functioning of that relationship. There may be many self-reinforcing and maladaptive patterns, which are a result of insecure attachment, ego, jealousy, anger, arrogance, greed, poor communication, lack of problem solving skills, third parties, and ill health.

The influences in a relationship are almost always reciprocal. Any relationship that fails is usually because of the actions of both the individuals, rather than just one person. Issues in a relationship also surface due to the interaction of two or more factors influencing that particular relationship.

The best solution to such problems is to reorient the perceptions and emotions of the couple in the relationship. The counselor explores these issues in collaboration with the couple and discusses them openly.

Sources:Marriage Counselling in Chennai